Raising a Glass

On Sunday afternoon, we received some sad news. Joey's close childhood friend Alyssa passed away on Thursday. Her death, from breast cancer, was not unexpected but it still came as a shock. Tonight, we chose to remember her life in a manner in which we think she would have approved, raising a glass of beer in a friendly neighborhood bar. Joey told stories -- I am sure it will come as no surprise to those who knew her that he mentioned most her energy, sense of humor, and perspicacity -- and I listened.

Our hearts and thoughts go out to her family and loved ones -- particularly Mr. Tommy, Mrs. Diane, Josh, Renee, Adam, and Todd. We wish we could have been there with you today at her funeral. Our presence may not have made the day more bearable for you but we would have had lots of hugs to share.

Going on this trip involved a certain amount of risk. The hardest to experience is our inability to be there when the people we care for need some extra love. This is one of those times.

Of course, Alyssa's death reminds us of Becky's passing six and a half years ago. It is amazing how much our lives have changed since that time. In a way, our willingness to take this trip is a remembrance of our time with her. We get one chance and so we will live it to the fullest.

As Joey said today, Alyssa's absence also reminds us to tell our loved ones how much we care for them everyday. So, from far off New Zealand, know that we love you and are thinking of you.

Erin